The 14th of February is a day dedicated to Love – the most powerful force in this Universe. Love is what drives us, inspires us, and makes our life worth living. It takes a lot of courage, strength, and understanding to love another human being
We don't need a special date on the calendar to show our beloved people how much they mean to us because we should strive to make them feel loved every day. But it's okay if you want/need an excuse for some extra affection towards your significant other! Here are a few great ways you can give your love a boost this Valentine's Day.
Love Yourself First
You cannot expect someone else to love you if you don't even know what exactly it is that makes you special. So take some time alone and do things that will help you learn more about who you are. So before you shower them with affection, make sure that you work on loving yourself first – their love is a bonus.
Compliment Them
Give them compliments that are heartfelt. Since Valentine's Day usually revolves around showing appreciation for another person's efforts (in this case, it would be your partner), now is also a great time to give compliments. As long as these compliments are sincere and genuine, they should have a positive impact on your partner's day. For example, you could say something like "You are always so kind to others" or "Your smile can brighten up my entire day." To make this even more special, consider giving the compliment in private so it won't feel awkward.
Admit when you're wrong
It might be hard for some people but owning up when you've made a mistake is another great way to show love. This works especially well if your partner has pointed out your reluctance to own up to your faults in a prior incident. Admitting that you’re not always right conveys the fact that you value your partner’s feedback, that you are actively engaged when they communicate things, and that you meditate on the things you talk about post-fact.
Touch Them
Hug your partner or hold hands with them during your date. You can even go the extra mile by kissing them passionately on the lips when you think they aren't aware of it! This will show that you're very comfortable around each other and allows you to be more intimate with each other.
Do Less Talking
While communication is important in a relationship, couples should also try making this an opportunity where both parties listen instead of just one person doing all the talking. If your significant other has something on their mind, allow them to voice out what's bothering them so they can relieve some stress as well!
Don't Make Them Feel Insecure
Don't criticize your partner by saying that they gained weight or calling them out on their faults. They know it already, and asking them to change won't solve anything! Let them be themselves and embrace their flaws because chances are, you'll love them even more for who they are anyway.
Talk
If you keep everything inside it's only natural to end up resenting each other. Communication is fundamental when it comes to relationships - not just talking with words but also being there for each other, making sure they are feeling good and if needed, listening when they want to vent.
Don't Be Afraid of Conflict
Sometimes couples have trouble coming up with solutions when conflicts arise. The key is to always listen to your partner, don't interrupt, and avoid being judgemental. Usually, it's a good idea to take a break from the discussion and come back after some time has passed.
Work as a Team
Whether it's planning a birthday party for your kids or deciding what color should be painted on the living room wall - never forget that you are partners in life! Do things together, help each other with chores, celebrate successes as well as failures, and learn how to give each other space when needed.
Spend Quality Time Together
Instead of just sitting side by side watching your favorite TV series, why not shift gears and try out some new activities that you haven't tried before? It could be as simple as playing a board game or learning how to cook together, but these are moments that are worth sharing because it's something unique to you as a couple.
Express Yourself Honestly and Openly
Keep in mind that there is no one who loves and understands your partner better than you do. If something is on your mind, don't hesitate to share it with them–especially if it's something that's been bothering you for a while. Your loved ones will appreciate the fact that you can talk to them about anything without feeling judged.
Buy a Thoughtful Gift
Romance should not only be limited to February 14th, but you could spoil your loved one with a cute teddy bear or a box of chocolates other than roses this year! Flowers die quickly, so why not get her something more valuable? There's no limit as to what you can do - from painting their portrait, writing your story together in a book, or baking them a special pie...just make sure it comes from the heart.
Cook Together
Here's another activity which you can try with your partner: cooking! Prepare and cook a meal together. Cooking has long been known to help ease stress and increase relaxation - another great way to get closer to your loved one while also leaving you feeling satisfied after a fulfilling dinner! If cooking isn't really your thing, takeout will work just fine too! Just make sure you pick up something they like.
Keep Dates Spontaneous
When planning dates for Valentine's Day, don't always go by the book as this should be an enjoyable time where both parties should try something new. Whether it's trying out a new restaurant or going to exciting places around town, spontaneity is always fun, so allow yourself to take risks every once in a while.
Give your Partner a Massage
While the idea of splurging on expensive spa days is nice, it's perhaps not always practical. Luckily there are lots of inexpensive ways to show love and care - one of them being giving their shoulders, neck, and back a rub down with some scented oil or cream. Ask for feedback so you can learn what kind of touch they enjoy most.
If you don't know where to start with all that, then there are many step-by-step guides online for free- just try typing "(insert body part) how to give (him/her) a massage." This will show your partner how much you care about not only their feelings but their overall health as well.
Show Interest in Their Hobbies
Everyone has different hobbies and interests- some people enjoy playing sports while others are more interested in picking up a new book to read. As long as it makes sense within the context of your relationship, try doing one of the activities your partner enjoys on this day. They'll appreciate knowing that you took time out of your busy schedule so that they could have a great experience.
Listen to Them Attentively
When your phone is lying beside you on the table while you're hanging out with your significant other, there's obviously a problem. Make an effort to put away whatever distraction takes up most of your time – whether it's your phone or TV – so that all of your focus can be on the person right in front of you. Trust me, when someone feels like they have our full attention, they feel loved!
Make Them Feel Beautiful Even When They Have a Bad Hair Day or Look Tired
If there is one thing that most women want their significant other to understand, it's that beauty comes from within, and they're perfect just the way they are. Remind your loved ones every day how much you admire all of their positive qualities, and never forget to remind them how beautiful they are! Even if today wasn't the best day for them, make sure they know that you still think they're gorgeous!
Surprise Them With Breakfast in Bed
If your partner is a morning person, this could very well be their dream come true! Just remember to keep it healthy, so you're sending the right message. Fruit platters, yogurt parfaits, and smoothies are all great ways to start off their day in a healthy way. After all, they've just spent a night sleeping in a cozy bed, shouldn't they wake up to something equally as nice?
Show Them That Their Comfort Matters to You
If your partner comes home from a long day, the last thing they want is for you to be demanding of them. Even if all they want to do is snuggle up on the couch and take a nap, let them have their way! Their wellbeing should always come before anything else.
Rediscover Your Partner's Childhood Photos
There is no one who doesn't like talking about their childhood exploits and mishaps. So go through old photo albums and laugh at baby pictures. The more you know about each other, the better you will be able to understand what makes them tick.
Dress Up for Each Other
Valentine's Day is all about being overly generous with love, but guess what? You are allowed to be extra dressy every day of the year! Go on a shopping spree and try new things together, it will help you discover your fashion sense as well as unique accessories your partner might like.
Place a Love Note in their Pocket or Purse
If you really want to go the extra mile for your partner this Valentine's Day, then place a love note somewhere where it's easily accessible and out of sight. For example, you could place it in your partner's coat pocket so they can find it before leaving for work or school, or put it inside their purse so they'll see it when going to lunch later on that day.
The contents of this note don't need to be complicated at all. All you really need is something meaningful that can be used to show your support for your partner. If you were looking for ideas, then you could write something along the lines of "I'm rooting for you today!" or "You are special, remember that." The important thing is that this note will bring a smile to your partner's face and make them feel better about their day.
Out of all the ways you can show love, this one might be the best idea on the list. If your partner wants to do or achieve something, then offer them support and cheer them on throughout their journey. It doesn't matter if they were trying to make more friends at work or looking for a new job; as long as it makes sense within the context of your relationship, showing your support will definitely go far.
Redecorate Your Home
Nothing says "I love you" like giving your partner a new piece of furniture or redecorating their favorite room… Nothing says "Love is in the air" quite like brightening up someone's life! Whether it's updating their décor with fresh accessories or buying them something brand new there are plenty of ways to get creative when it comes to decorating together.
Take Them To Their Favorite Place
Everyone has that one place where they can go and just relax after a long hard day at work. So why not take them there today? Whether it's for coffee, lunch, or even shopping, taking them to their favorite place when they're having a hard time is the perfect way to show them you care.
Bonus: Gift Them With Ergonomic Furniture
Valentine's is just around the corner. And what better gesture of love can be given to your partner than gifting them something which would help them in their daily life! Most people think of buying their partner chocolates, flowers, or jewelry for Valentine's Day. But what about considering ergonomic furniture?
Believe it or not, this could be the perfect gift for your loved one! There are many benefits to using ergonomic furniture, which is why you should consider gifting it to your partner this year. Ergonomic Seats and Standing Desks are designed to make sitting and working more comfortable, which can be a major plus for people who spend a lot of time at their desks. Plus, they are sure to give your home office a trendy new look!
Conclusion
These activities are simple and very straightforward. Remember that love doesn't have to be complicated at all! All it takes is some creativity on your part to show how much you love your partner, and soon enough, they will be reciprocating the gesture as well. So this Valentine's Day, don't be a scaredy-cat and let your guard down for a little bit to show the people that you care about how much effort you're willing to put in just to see them happy!
If you have been doing these things already, then great job! It may not seem like a lot of effort on your part but it does mean a lot to the person whom you love. In life, all it takes is one spontaneous moment or one thoughtful gift from someone special to make a difference. Take advantage of every opportunity that comes your way because some things are simply priceless.
